LaShaundra Barnes

Follower of Jesus Christ, Single Mother & Domestic Violence Survivor

As a child, I was reserved and quiet. I remember my parents would argue a lot and eventually got divorced around 6th or 7th grade. I was happy because of the peace there was once they separated. I never knew how much witnessing these things would impact me through adulthood.

I met my first boyfriend when I was a Junior in high school. He was so polite and such a gentleman. We met at the beginning of the school year then a few months later he moved away. I never had closure from this. I also didn't realize what he was dealing with mentally and what he had endured over the years. This same high school sweetheart years later became my, now former abuser, and the father of my 3 children.

We reconnected around my Jr. year in college and decided to be in a long-distance relationship. Soon we were pregnant with my first child and our life together began. What I thought would be a fairytale love story, ended up being a traumatic, toxic, and deadly experience.

I suffered mental, emotional, physical and financial abuse in this relationship. Yet, the many existing barriers and the image I desired to present of a "perfect and happy family", kept me trapped for years. I didn't realize he needed more help than I could give and it was something he had to desire and seek out for himself.

My story is a story of faith, triumph, healing and forgiveness, that will allow listeners to be uplifted, empowered and encouraged. Providing unique perspectives and a better understanding of abuse through a survivor's lens.

I'm inspiring others to be bold and unashamed to tell their stories because they are powerful and can impact the lives of many others.

I want listeners to see that there is life after abuse. I'm no longer a survivor, but a thriver, finally leading a life of obedience to God. I've never allowed my experiences and past trauma to define or hinder me. I’m bold enough to share my story, finding purpose in my pain and seeking every opportunity to lead others back to Christ.